• 18 ‘transition’ episodes

    2019

    2018

    Rejecting Maleness @ Journal of Mennonite Writing

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    The Journal of Mennonite Writing asked me to submit for their queer issue. I don’t identify as Mennonite, but I did grow up in the church, so I asked my friends what to write about. They suggested the common question: In a world without rigid gender roles, would anyone need to be trans?

    Chosen Family (Thank You)

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    Yesterday, I shared an article about my impending surgery, and a request for help – both social and financial – as I go through this. I was embarrassed to ask, and not sure what to expect, but your response has been swift and overwhelming. I can’t thank you enough, but I’ll keep trying.

    Mia’s Medical Upgrade

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    Denver Health has started offering vaginoplasty in addition to their other trans medical services. While I’ve been on the waitlist for various surgeons around the country, Denver Health called me this week to give me a date: September 10, less than two months away.

    Speaking of Pride @ Invisible City

    | music | Denver, CO

    An LGBT concert of writers and composers by the Playground Ensemble, with three works by LGBT authors and the composers.

    2017

    Sex, Love, & RomancePS I Love You

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    “I don’t have many guy friends, but my guitarist is one. Parting, I lean in for the cheek-kiss but he plants a good one right on my lips.”

    (Mis)Gender

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    At the family vacation in Moab, everyone is doing their best. It’s not enough, and my day is peppered with the wrong name and pronouns. I hide in my room through dinner so they won’t see me crying.

    Shifting Nouns @ Twined Fragments

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    “I’ve seen myself in the mirror. I find me… disorienting. What do they see that I don’t? Why aren’t they laughing at me?”

    Mothers, Fathers, Husbands, Wives @ Twined Fragments

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    “Mother finds me at her wardrobe, in her pumps and pearls. What are you doing? Being a mommy. Are you, then? She clips on the earrings (they pinch!), reaches for her lipstick.”

    Body & Gender Fragments

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    I wasn’t born in the wrong body. I was born, a body. Without my body, I don’t exist.

    2016

    Some Clarifications on Trans Language

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    There’s a lot of language that gets thrown around, but much of it comes loaded with over-simplified baggage and misconceptions. Here are a few that have been on my mind – from gender identity to biological sex, transition, passing, and visibility.

    Miriam: A How-To Guide

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    There are some questions that come up again and again if you are trans. A few of those questions are terrible, but most of them are well-intentioned. I’m lucky to have a supportive community around me, so I thought I’d write down my most common answers to help ease your stress about getting it right, and ease my stress about answering the same questions over and over.